Michelangelo’s Tender Friendship with Renaissance Poet Vittoria Colonna

Alina Cohen
Feb 9, 2018 9:59PM

Sebastiano del Piombo, Vittoria Colonna, 1520-1525. Image via Wikimedia Commons.

Michelangelo, Pietà per Vittoria Colonna, 1546. Image via Wikimedia Commons.

Until the late 19th century, rumor had it that an Italian woman named Vittoria Colonna had served as Michelangelo’s muse. They’d been involved in a passionate affair, the story went, and he’d written the love poetry to prove it. Scholars gradually began to untangle the myth and, in 1893, British Michelangelo biographer John Addington Symonds set the record straight. “The world seems unable to take interest in a man unless it can contrive to discover a love-affair in his career,” he chided. “Romancers and legend-makers have, therefore, forced Vittoria Colonna to play the role of Juliet in Michelangelo’s life drama.”

Yet, the misinterpretation was far more insidious than mere trashy tabloid fare: It suggested the era’s rampant homophobia and relegated one of the most influential women of the Renaissance to a mere object of desire. Michelangelo had actually written affectionate poems to his beloved Tommaso dei Cavalieri, a nobleman; his nephew changed their subjects’ gender to avoid allegations that the artist was homosexual. For her part, Colonna impacted Michelangelo’s life in far more significant ways than sitting for a portrait or sharing his bed. A celebrated poet, she influenced his ideas about religion, patronized his work, and served as one of his closest confidantes.

Born in either 1490 or 1492 to Roman nobility, Colonna was widowed in her thirties. Childless and extremely wealthy (her substantial dowry was returned to her after her husband’s death), she was, as Ramie Targoff writes in a new biography, Renaissance Woman, “about as free as any Renaissance woman could be.” A deeply pious woman, she first sought to become a nun. For political reasons, however, the pope forbid a convent from accepting Colonna into their ranks—if she entered, he’d have to deal directly with her difficult brother. She was on the verge of setting up her own convent when the pope went to war with her family and their allies. Plans of a cloistered life thwarted, she turned instead to poetry.

Colonna, as one of the only female poets outside of the clergy at that time, penned sonnets that influenced generations of successive writers. She pushed the highly-structured sonnet scheme, popularized by Italian Renaissance poet and scholar Petrarch, in a new direction. “The way in which she’s using lyric poetry to write about her relationship with Christ is entirely new,” Dr. Abigail Brundin, chair of the faculty of modern and medieval languages at the University of Cambridge, told Artsy.

Brundin cites a famous poem in which Colonna imagines herself writing. Her character uses the nails from the cross, dips them in the ink of Christ’s blood, and inscribes her poetry on his pale flesh. Morbid, maybe. But it’s also a radical instance of what Brundin calls an “embodied” and “physical” poetic language. She notes a connection to Michelangelo’s own verse (around 300 of his poems survive today), which similarly alluded to the corporeal, describing the process of using tools and sculpting human forms.

Francesco Jacovacci, Michelangelo honoring dead body of Vittoria Colonna, 1880. Photo by DEA/PEDICINI/Getty Images.


Although there’s no documentation of their first interaction, Colonna and Michelangelo met in the 1530s and went on to conduct one of the era’s most celebrated friendships. Targoff explains that their similar views on religion and art strengthened their bond. She writes about “their shared conviction that faith was not something that could be taught by the church: it needed to be experienced personally.” Furthermore, the pair “believed that one of the best ways to enhance such an experience was through works of art.”

Colonna actually plays a small role in the exhibition “Michelangelo: Divine Draftsman and Designer,” currently on view at the Metropolitan Museum of Art. There, you’ll see a remarkable black chalk on paper drawing, Pietà for Vittoria Colonna (1540), that she commissioned. In the drawing, the Virgin Mary becomes a strong, autonomous figure—a novel interpretation for the day. “It’s incredibly interesting, the idea that Michelangelo made these unfinished drawings because that left space for Vittoria Colonna to use her imagination and use them in her religious practice in an active way,” says Brundin.

Colonna received at least two other drawings from Michelangelo, and they briefly discussed erecting a convent together. They exchanged effusive letters, and Colonna gifted him with her poetry. Michelangelo, in turn, praised her in verse, describing her “heavenly grace” and suggesting that God spoke through her. Childless Colonna expressed a concerned, motherly side when she wrote to a friend, asking him to lend the artist a monocle that would lessen his eye strain as he finished his frescoes at the Pauline Chapel. Perhaps Colonna, in a small way, served as a surrogate mother for Michelangelo; his own mother had died when he was six years old.

So why don’t more people know about this influential Renaissance poet and patron? Unsurprisingly, Brundin suggests that history was unkind to women writers of this period. “While [Colonna] was extremely famous and widely read, and her poetry was set to music, a century later she’s primarily remembered as Michelangelo’s muse,” Brundin says. “Even though that wasn’t the way their relationship worked at all. In many ways, he was the muse.”

Alina Cohen