Fingers coddling and stroking and gripping and owning Desires not yet understood or even worth knowing they are known. Coded and conditioned until within our arms Loved and unloved and used. Thing thing thing things Him her her her her it Us us us us us us us A limb and then some Relating Relations and Bonding Things together not forever. Grasping for a connection And attempting communication. Tools... As abstractions of the figure that express a relationship to the self felt in childhood.